Burfeind Wedding

Welcome to Kevin & Shealyn’s Wedding Page

Kevin and Shealyn Frame

Welcome…     This is the current information as far as we know here- things are always subject to change.    You can still put in requests at the bottom of the page, but no promises at this point.    If you know of any changes, please use the form at the bottom of the page to inform us so.

Photos by Cathie’s Side Photography service:  <CLICK HERE>


Rehearsal Dinner Day – Order of Events

  • 3:30 p.m. Bridesmaides/groomsmen meet in Salem (location TBD) and carpool out to Beckenridge
  •  4:00 – 5:00 p.m.  Wedding Rehearsal – Led by Glenn Burfeind
  •  5:00 – 6:30 p.m. Go to Deepwood estate, set up anything necessary, get any last minute items
  •  6:00 p.m. – Kevin goes to Sassy Onion, gets food. Guests that arrive early can grab drinks
  •  6:30 p.m. – Dinner is served – Kevin will excuse guests by table
  •  7:30 p.m./whenever dinner starts winding down – Toasts begin
  • Kevin and Shealyn
  • Glenn and/or Deb Burfeind
  • James Kelly
  • Becca Rhodes
  • Anyone else
  • 8:30 – 9:00 p.m. Things start winding down



  • 10:00 a.m. Doors open for caterer/flourist/Dj/wedding assistant
  • Colleen arrives at venue
  • 10:30 p.m. Shealyn Makeup
  • 11:00 a.m. GROOMSMEN ARRIVE AT VENUE – to help with stuff
  • Jim arrives at venue in truck with tables/possibly other stuff. Jim brings sandwiches.
  • 11:45 a.m. Shealyn and Becca at hair appointment
  • 12:00 p.m. BRIDESMAIDES ARRIVE AT VENUE (with hair and makeup)
  • 1:00 p.m. Groomsmen start getting ready – ready by 1:30
  • Bridesmaides start getting ready
  • 1:30 p.m. Shealyn arrive at venue to put on dress
  • 2:00 p.m. Pictures begin!!!!
  • First look picture
  • All groomsmen + groom (30 min)
  • All bridesmaids + Shealyn (30 min)
  • Everyone together
  • 3:00 p.m. Family pictures – Kevin’s family must be there at least by 2:30 p.m.
  • 3:30 p.m. Guests start arriving
  • 3:30 p.m. – 4:00 p.m. Getting ready – no pictures. Shealyn and Kevin are hiding
  • 3:45 p.m. Everyone must be in facility to start lining up
  • 4:00 – 4:30/4:45 p.m. CEREMONY – See ceremony schedule for additional details
  • 4:45 p.m./right after ceremony GROOMSMEN START TAKING CHAIRS up to reception area
  • 5:00 p.m. Reception starts (appetizers) – Kevin and Shealyn at pictures
  • 5:45 p.m. Kevin and Shealyn enter through front doors. Dave announces them. Kevin gives short speech/thanks everybody. Glenn gives blessing.
  • 6:00 p.m. Dave announces dinner and excuses people by table. Dinner starts. Kevin and Shealyn go first.
  • 6:30 – 6:45 p.m.Toasts begin
  • Best man
  • Maid of honor
  • Father of the bride
  • Anyone else
  • 7:00 p.m./right after toasts  Dances
  • First Dance (“The Way I am” by Ingrid Michaelson)
  • Father-Daughter ( “My Little Girl” by Pierce Pettis)
  • Mother-Son (“In My Life” by The Beatles)
  • Entire Bridal Party
  • Open Dancing
  • 7:45ish Cake cutting (“I’m Yours” by Jason Mraz)
  • 8:00 p.m. Bouquet Toss (“Single Ladies” by Beyonce)
  • 8:10 p.m. Garder Toss (“You Sexy Thing” by Hot Chocolate)
  • 8:15 p.m. Open Dancing
  • 8:55 p.m. Final Song (“Sweet Caroline” by Neil Diamond)
  • 9:00 p.m. Send off – everyone left grabs bubbles
  • 9:10 p.m. – 10:00 p.m. Cleanup
  • 10:00 p.m. Everyone out


Ceremony Order of Event                                                

  • Entrance
  •  Sentence of Scripture
  •  Statement on the Gift of Marriage
  •  Special Reading
  •  Affirmations of the Gathered Community
  •  Reading from Scripture
  •  Meditation
  •  Vows
  •  Exchange of Rings
  •  Special Reading
  •  Prayer
  •  Announcement of Marriage
  • Charge and Blessing
  •  The Kiss!
  • Recessional

Special Song Requsts:

  •  New York (Frank Sinatra)
  •  It only took A Kiss(Big Bad Voodoo Daddy)

Special Songs:


  • Prelude: Hoppipolla by We are Scientists, I Will Follow you into the Dark by Death Cab for Cutie, Home by Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros
  • Bridal Party Processional:”Such Great Heights” by Iron and Wine
  • Brides Entrance: “Can’t help falling in Love” Ingrid Michaelson
  • Recessional: So Happy Together by Turtles


  • Bridal Party Entrance: I Want You back by Jackson 5
  • Bride and Groom Song: The Way I am by Ingrid Michaelson
  • Bride and Father Song: My Little Girl by Pierce Pettis
  • Groom and Mother Song: In My Life by The Beatles
  • Bridal Party Song: Cancelled
  • Bouquet Song: Single Ladies by Beyonce
  • Garter Toss Song: You Sexy Thing by Hot Chocolate
  • Last Song: Sweet Caroline by Neil Diamond

 MUST PLAY: 19 Selections 1 Hour, 16 Minutes

Artist / Song

  • Phoenix 1901 
  • Smash Mouth All Star 
  • Band Perry All Your Life 
  • Posner, Mike Cooler Than Me 
  • Ke$ha Die Young 
  • MGMT Electric Feel 
  • Coldplay Fix You 
  • Sharpe, Edward & The Magnetic Zeros Home 
  • Jackson 5 I Want You Back 
  • Imagine Dragons It’s Time 
  • MGMT Kids 
  • Goulding, Ellie Lights 
  • Of Monsters And Men Little Talks 
  • Head And The Heart, The Lost In My Mind 
  • Sinatra, Frank New York, New York 
  • Imagine Dragons Radioactive 
  • Passion Pit Take A Walk 
  • Coldplay The Scientist 
  • Queen & David Bowie Under Pressure

PLAY IF POSSIBLE: 17 Selections 1 Hour, 8 Minutes

Artist / Song

  • B.o.B Feat. Hayley Williams of Paramore Airplanes 
  • Johnson, Jack Better Together 
  • Queen Bohemian Rhapsody 
  • ‘N Sync Bye Bye Bye 
  • Cascada Evacuate The Dancefloor 
  • Uncle Kracker Follow Me 
  • Petty, Tom Free Fallin’ 
  • Outkast Hey Ya! 
  • Lumineers Ho Hey 
  • Modern English I Melt With You 
  • Mraz, Jason I Won’t Give Up 
  • Franti, Michael & Spearhead Say Hey (I Love You) 
  • Postal Service Such Great Heights 
  • ‘N Sync Tearin’ Up My Heart 
  • Jackson, Michael Thriller 
  • Spice Girls Wannabe 
  • Postal Service We Will Become Silhouettes

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